If you're the type of person who runs away from over - eager salespeople, buy a few wedding magazines first, then visit a bridal store. That way, you can take your time to look at wedding gown styles without being influenced by others (with the possible exceptions of your mother and potential mother - in - law!). Have a clear idea of the wedding theme and the budget. Bring along some magazine clippings of styles you want - sometimes it can be difficult to describe your dream wedding dress to others.
Pick an established bridal store - they would be able to give you better (free!) advice on so many things. Even if you don't buy anything from the store, it's worthwhile listening to the staff, which will be able to offer suggestions on fit and style based on your age and body type. A gown may look wonderful in a magazine, but it may not look good on you. Your consultant will help you find the right gown, at the right price. If you feel you need to put on a few store gowns to help you decide, consider wearing a strapless bra. This will help you get a better feeling of how each gown would look during your wedding. Remember - don't rush - take at least one day to decide on the gown you would like to purchase. This will help ensure that you make a rational decision.
Here are some useful questions:
- Modern or traditional?
Most Malaysian couples will wear both styles, one for the traditional ceremony and another for the reception. The traditional costume is easy enough as there are really not too many styles for baju Melayu, cheongsams and sarees. You only need to think of the colours and costs involved.
Modern styles need far more thought - do you want to float down the aisle (or hall) in a bell shape gown complete with train and lace, or do you prefer a simpler style? You could go for a form fitting satin gown, perhaps with sequins sewn into it. Many brides in the
- How much do you want to spend on something which will probably not fit you in ten years time - or even sooner ?
Wedding costumes can range in price from a few hundred to a few thousand ringgit. Many wedding consultants suggest setting aside about 5% of the total wedding budget on costumes and accessories. Also, alterations may be needed, so you need to factor that in as well.
- Payment terms?
Use a credit card. Most cards offer some kind of buyer protection services so if something goes wrong, you may be able to recover some of your losses. Most stores will expect a 50% deposit on the costumes.
How do you look?
Both the bride and groom should try to have at least two fittings - the first to see what needs to be altered, and the second to check that you both look great in your costumes. The rules are - do not rush yourself and the tailor, and bring along someone else who you can trust to tell you how you really look.
Now that your clothes are ready, it may be a good idea to leave them at the bridal store or tailor. Most of these places have proper racks where clothes can be hung neatly to prevent wrinkles.
Serenity or stress?
You may have had visions of a serene wedding day, when everyone remarks how radiant you look. The truth is, your wedding day is going to be very hectic and without proper planning, you'll end up simply looking harassed. Try to have a good night's sleep, and allow yourself at least two hours to get ready before your wedding is scheduled to begin. Take your time and enjoy the company of those around you. Bring an "emergency" kit with you to the wedding venue to deal with last - minute sewing jobs, extra makeup, stockings, and tissues, as well as comfortable shoes just in case you have to stand for long hours. This is not the day for you to experiment with new six - inch high heeled shoes!
Finally…. make sure you're really happy with your choice of clothes and accessories, because when you look good, you feel good.
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